Thus by keeping it secret thou wilt not escape thy sorrow, butrather thou wilt
shed tears unceasingly, if not tears of the eyes,tears of blood from the heart,
like those shed by that simple doctorour poet tells us of, that tried the test of
the cup, which the wiseRinaldo, better advised, refused to do; for though this may
be apoetic fiction it contains a moral lesson worthy of attention andstudy and imitation.
Moreover by what I am about to say to thee thouwilt be led to see the great error
thou wouldst commit.
"Tell me, Anselmo, if Heaven or good fortune had made thee masterand lawful owner
of a diamond of the finest quality, with theexcellence and purity of which all the
lapidaries that had seen it hadbeen satisfied, saying with one voice and common
consent that inpurity, quality, and fineness, it was all that a stone of the kindcould
possibly be, thou thyself too being of the same belief, asknowing nothing to the
contrary, would it be reasonable in thee todesire to take that diamond and place
it between an anvil and ahammer, and by mere force of blows and strength of arm
try if itwere as hard and as fine as they said? And if thou didst, and if thestone
should resist so silly a test, that would add nothing to itsvalue or reputation;
and if it were broken, as it might be, wouldnot all be lost? Undoubtedly it would,
leaving its owner to be ratedas a fool in the opinion of all. Consider, then, Anselmo
my friend,that Camilla is a diamond of the finest quality as well in thyestimation
as in that of others, and that it is contrary to reasonto expose her to the risk
of being broken; for if she remains intactshe cannot rise to a higher value than
she now possesses; and if shegive way and be unable to resist, bethink thee now
how thou wilt bedeprived of her, and with what good reason thou wilt complain ofthyself
for having been the cause of her ruin and thine own.Remember there is no jewel in
the world so precious as a chaste andvirtuous woman, and that the whole honour of
women consists inreputation; and since thy wife's is of that high excellence thatthou
knowest, wherefore shouldst thou seek to call that truth inquestion? Remember, my
friend, that woman is an imperfect animal,and that impediments are not to be placed
in her way to make hertrip and fall, but that they should be removed, and her path
leftclear of all obstacles, so that without hindrance she may run hercourse freely
to attain the desired perfection, which consists inbeing virtuous. Naturalists tell
us that the ermine is a little animalwhich has a fur of purest white, and that when
the hunters wish totake it, they make use of this artifice. Having ascertained the
placeswhich it frequents and passes, they stop the way to them with mud, andthen
rousing it, drive it towards the spot, and as soon as theermine comes to the mud
it halts, and allows itself to be takencaptive rather than pass through the mire,
and spoil and sully itswhiteness, which it values more than life and liberty. The
virtuousand chaste woman is an ermine, and whiter and purer than snow is thevirtue
of modesty; and he who wishes her not to lose it, but to keepand preserve it, must
adopt a course different from that employed withthe ermine; he must not put before
her the mire of the gifts andattentions of persevering lovers, because perhaps-
and even withouta perhaps- she may not have sufficient virtue and natural strengthin
herself to pass through and tread under foot these impediments;they must be removed,
and the brightness of virtue and the beauty of afair fame must be put before her.
A virtuous woman, too, is like amirror, of clear shining crystal, liable to be tarnished
and dimmed byevery breath that touches it. She must be treated as relics are;adored,
not touched. She must be protected and prized as oneprotects and prizes a fair garden
full of roses and flowers, the ownerof which allows no one to trespass or pluck
a blossom; enough forothers that from afar and through the iron grating they may
enjoyits fragrance and its beauty. Finally let me repeat to thee someverses that
come to my mind; I heard them in a modern comedy, and itseems to me they bear upon
the point we are discussing. A prudentold man was giving advice to another, the
father of a young girl, tolock her up, watch over her and keep her in seclusion,
and among otherarguments he used these:
Woman is a thing of glass;But her brittleness 'tis bestNot too curiously to test:Who
knows what may come to pass?
Breaking is an easy matter,And it's folly to exposeWhat you cannot mend to blows;What
you can't make whole to shatter.
This, then, all may hold as true,And the reason's plain to see;For if Danaes
there be,There are golden showers too.
"All that I have said to thee so far, Anselmo, has had referenceto what concerns
thee; now it is right that I should say somethingof what regards myself; and if
I be prolix, pardon me, for thelabyrinth into which thou hast entered and from which
thou wouldsthave me extricate thee makes it necessary.
"Thou dost reckon me thy friend, and thou wouldst rob me ofhonour, a thing wholly
inconsistent with friendship; and not only dostthou aim at this, but thou wouldst
have me rob thee of it also. Thatthou wouldst rob me of it is clear, for when Camilla
sees that I paycourt to her as thou requirest, she will certainly regard me as aman
without honour or right feeling, since I attempt and do a thing somuch opposed to
what I owe to my own position and thy friendship. Thatthou wouldst have me rob thee
of it is beyond a doubt, for Camilla,seeing that I press my suit upon her, will
suppose that I haveperceived in her something light that has encouraged me to makeknown
to her my base desire; and if she holds herself dishonoured, herdishonour touches
thee as belonging to her; and hence arises what socommonly takes place, that the
husband of the adulterous woman, thoughhe may not be aware of or have given any
cause for his wife'sfailure in her duty, or (being careless or negligent) have had
it inhis power to prevent his dishonour, nevertheless is stigmatised by avile and
reproachful name, and in a manner regarded with eyes ofcontempt instead of pity
by all who know of his wife's guilt, thoughthey see that he is unfortunate not by
his own fault, but by thelust of a vicious consort. But I will tell thee why with
good reasondishonour attaches to the husband of the unchaste wife, though he knownot
that she is so, nor be to blame, nor have done anything, orgiven any provocation
to make her so; and be not weary withlistening to me, for it will be for thy good.
"When God created our first parent in the earthly paradise, the HolyScripture
says that he infused sleep into Adam and while he slept tooka rib from his left
side of which he formed our mother Eve, and whenAdam awoke and beheld her he said,
'This is flesh of my flesh, andbone of my bone.' And God said 'For this shall a
man leave hisfather and his mother, and they shall be two in one flesh; and thenwas
instituted the divine sacrament of marriage, with such ties thatdeath alone can
loose them. And such is the force and virtue of thismiraculous sacrament that it
makes two different persons one and thesame flesh; and even more than this when
the virtuous are married; forthough they have two souls they have but one will.
And hence itfollows that as the flesh of the wife is one and the same with that
ofher husband the stains that may come upon it, or the injuries itincurs fall upon
the husband's flesh, though he, as has been said, mayhave given no cause for them;
for as the pain of the foot or anymember of the body is felt by the whole body,
because all is oneflesh, as the head feels the hurt to the ankle without having
causedit, so the husband, being one with her, shares the dishonour of thewife; and
as all worldly honour or dishonour comes of flesh and blood,and the erring wife's
is of that kind, the husband must needs bear hispart of it and be held dishonoured
without knowing it. See, then,Anselmo, the peril thou art encountering in seeking
to disturb thepeace of thy virtuous consort; see for what an empty and ill-advisedcuriosity
thou wouldst rouse up passions that now repose in quiet inthe breast of thy chaste
wife; reflect that what thou art stakingall to win is little, and what thou wilt
lose so much that I leaveit undescribed, not having the words to express it. But
if all Ihave said be not enough to turn thee from thy vile purpose, thoumust seek
some other instrument for thy dishonour and misfortune;for such I will not consent
to be, though I lose thy friendship, thegreatest loss that I can conceive."
Having said this, the wise and virtuous Lothario was silent, andAnselmo, troubled
in mind and deep in thought, was unable for awhile to utter a word in reply; but
at length he said, "I havelistened, Lothario my friend, attentively, as thou hast
seen, towhat thou hast chosen to say to me, and in thy arguments, examples,and comparisons
I have seen that high intelligence thou dostpossess, and the perfection of true
friendship thou hast reached;and likewise I see and confess that if I am not guided
by thy opinion,but follow my own, I am flying from the good and pursuing the evil.This
being so, thou must remember that I am now labouring under thatinfirmity which women
sometimes suffer from, when the craving seizesthem to eat clay, plaster, charcoal,
and things even worse, disgustingto look at, much more to eat; so that it will be
necessary to haverecourse to some artifice to cure me; and this can be easilyeffected
if only thou wilt make a beginning, even though it be in alukewarm and make-believe
fashion, to pay court to Camilla, who willnot be so yielding that her virtue will
give way at the firstattack: with this mere attempt I shall rest satisfied, and
thou wilthave done what our friendship binds thee to do, not only in givingme life,
but in persuading me not to discard my honour. And thisthou art bound to do for
one reason alone, that, being, as I am,resolved to apply this test, it is not for
thee to permit me to revealmy weakness to another, and so imperil that honour thou
art strivingto keep me from losing; and if thine may not stand as high as it oughtin
the estimation of Camilla while thou art paying court to her,that is of little or
no importance, because ere long, on finding inher that constancy which we expect,
thou canst tell her the plaintruth as regards our stratagem, and so regain thy place
in her esteem;and as thou art venturing so little, and by the venture canst affordme
so much satisfaction, refuse not to undertake it, even if furtherdifficulties present
themselves to thee; for, as I have said, ifthou wilt only make a beginning I will
acknowledge the issue decided."
Lothario seeing the fixed determination of Anselmo, and notknowing what further
examples to offer or arguments to urge in orderto dissuade him from it, and perceiving
that he threatened toconfide his pernicious scheme to some one else, to avoid a
greaterevil resolved to gratify him and do what he asked, intending to managethe
business so as to satisfy Anselmo without corrupting the mind ofCamilla; so in reply
he told him not to communicate his purpose to anyother, for he would undertake the
task himself, and would begin itas soon as he pleased. Anselmo embraced him warmly
and affectionately,and thanked him for his offer as if he had bestowed some greatfavour
upon him; and it was agreed between them to set about it thenext day, Anselmo affording
opportunity and time to Lothario toconverse alone with Camilla, and furnishing him
with money andjewels to offer and present to her. He suggested, too, that heshould
treat her to music, and write verses in her praise, and if hewas unwilling to take
the trouble of composing them, he offered todo it himself. Lothario agreed to all
with an intention very differentfrom what Anselmo supposed, and with this understanding
theyreturned to Anselmo's house, where they found Camilla awaiting herhusband anxiously
and uneasily, for he was later than usual inreturning that day. Lothario repaired
to his own house, and Anselmoremained in his, as well satisfied as Lothario was
troubled in mind;for he could see no satisfactory way out of this ill-advised business.That
night, however, he thought of a plan by which he might deceiveAnselmo without any
injury to Camilla. The next day he went to dinewith his friend, and was welcomed
by Camilla, who received and treatedhim with great cordiality, knowing the affection
her husband feltfor him. When dinner was over and the cloth removed, Anselmo toldLothario
to stay there with Camilla while he attended to some pressingbusiness, as he would
return in an hour and a half. Camilla begged himnot to go, and Lothario offered
to accompany him, but nothing couldpersuade Anselmo, who on the contrary pressed
Lothario to remainwaiting for him as he had a matter of great importance to discuss
withhim. At the same time he bade Camilla not to leave Lothario aloneuntil he came
back. In short he contrived to put so good a face on thereason, or the folly, of
his absence that no one could havesuspected it was a pretence.
Anselmo took his departure, and Camilla and Lothario were left aloneat the table,
for the rest of the household had gone to dinner.Lothario saw himself in the lists
according to his friend's wish,and facing an enemy that could by her beauty alone
vanquish a squadronof armed knights; judge whether he had good reason to fear; but
whathe did was to lean his elbow on the arm of the chair, and his cheekupon his
hand, and, asking Camilla's pardon for his ill manners, hesaid he wished to take
a little sleep until Anselmo returned.Camilla in reply said he could repose more
at his ease in thereception-room than in his chair, and begged of him to go in and
sleepthere; but Lothario declined, and there he remained asleep until thereturn
of Anselmo, who finding Camilla in her own room, and Lotharioasleep, imagined that
he had stayed away so long as to have affordedthem time enough for conversation
and even for sleep, and was allimpatience until Lothario should wake up, that he
might go out withhim and question him as to his success. Everything fell out as
hewished; Lothario awoke, and the two at once left the house, andAnselmo asked what
he was anxious to know, and Lothario in answer toldhim that he had not thought it
advisable to declare himself entirelythe first time, and therefore had only extolled
the charms of Camilla,telling her that all the city spoke of nothing else but her
beauty andwit, for this seemed to him an excellent way of beginning to gainher good-will
and render her disposed to listen to him with pleasurethe next time, thus availing
himself of the device the devil hasrecourse to when he would deceive one who is
on the watch; for hebeing the angel of darkness transforms himself into an angel
of light,and, under cover of a fair seeming, discloses himself at length, andeffects
his purpose if at the beginning his wiles are notdiscovered. All this gave great
satisfaction to Anselmo, and he saidhe would afford the same opportunity every day,
but without leavingthe house, for he would find things to do at home so that Camillashould
not detect the plot.